Any relationship, if the principle and the bottom line suddenly disappear, then it will not be able to control the development of the future. In the feelings, women blindly lower themselves and compromise on men, naturally the other party will not put you in the heart. Love is to be evenly matched. You can persist in self-contending with the other side, and such feelings will last for a long time. Marriage and affection are lifelong. They can be solved without compromise. They only know how to compromise when they encounter problems. If they choose to compromise, then they will let the other party get used to this way. If you encounter any problems, you will be asked to give in, and finally you will be wronged. Always be yourself.
To be emotionally harmonious, you must know how to keep yourself. Keep your own attitude, show your own cards, and not indulge each other. Naturally, the other party will know how to respect you. If you love someone, you must have yourself first. A woman who does not know how to cherish herself will not have happiness, and men will not put you in the heart. Only by living the self and keeping the bottom line of self, the man will love you and put you in the heart.
3. Maintain self-economic independence
A woman will dislike a man who has no money. In fact, more men will also abandon a woman who is poor and have to rely on him to live. Then if you want to live in harmony, you have to learn to be independent. Women's self-economic independence is the greatest strength, and they are faced with the calmness of life. It is the best to meet what you want and buy it yourself, without looking at the other person's face. Nor will it be that when there are contradictions and disputes, the other party says that he is like him, you have to look at his face and act, and there is no place in life.
If a woman wants to be the best person in her heart, she must first become the best self, not dependent on the man, can be self-independent, have the ability to support herself, have the right to choose, do not have to cope with life, or choose what she wants. Life. And men will appreciate you more, favor you, and see you very seriously.
xxAt any time, only by becoming a better self will have more choices. Whether it is feelings or life, we must start from self-independence, learn to rationally treat feelings, maintain the principle of self, calmly analyze our feelings, and see what talents are worth paying for. Then you will find that when you become a better self, you will meet a better person. Men will love you more and put you in your heart. Therefore, women maintain these qualities, you will be in the hearts of men.xx